{"id":1501,"date":"2017-04-07T18:17:17","date_gmt":"2017-04-07T22:17:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/?p=1501"},"modified":"2017-04-07T18:25:58","modified_gmt":"2017-04-07T22:25:58","slug":"you-know-youre-right","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/?p=1501","title":{"rendered":"You Know You&#8217;re Right"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I love being right. \u00a0I love vindication. \u00a0However, there are times that I wished my 6th-sense mommy intuition was wrong.<\/p>\n<p>At Miriam&#8217;s daycare, parents send food\/snacks for their children until they are roughly 1.5 years old. \u00a0I am not an organic\/clean food sort of consumer\/parent, so practically none of the food that I sent to the daycare was ever made by me or Bryan. \u00a0Well, I guess all of that breastmilk that I sent was organic and took a lot of dedication to produce but solid foods were basically whatever looked good in the baby food aisle.<\/p>\n<p>Miriam was running low on snacks at the daycare, so I quickly ran out to the store to pick up baby friendly food. \u00a0She was almost 1 year old, and we were giving her &#8220;big girl&#8221; food like fruit bars. \u00a0As I hurried up and down the aisle, I came upon &#8220;Jammy Sammy&#8221; bars. \u00a0It was cushioned between other baby foods that were &#8220;organic&#8221;, so I quickly put the snack in my cart, comforted by the &#8220;organic&#8221; label.<\/p>\n<p>Big Mistake&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>Fast-forward a few days (maybe a week) later&#8230; \u00a0I received a call from the daycare explaining that during\u00a0snack-time Miriam \u00a0vomited &#8220;violently&#8221;, was crying, and breaking out in a rash. \u00a0I was then asked why I sent something with peanuts to the daycare. \u00a0&#8220;WHAT &#8211; I DIDN&#8217;T DO THAT!&#8221; \u00a0was my confused response. \u00a0I knew that the school was a &#8220;peanut free zone&#8221;, and sending a peanut laced snack was the equivalent of trying to kill someone.<\/p>\n<p>Apparently, that&#8217;s exactly what I had done. \u00a0The &#8220;Jammy Sammy&#8221; bars that I had purchased and sent to the daycare contained peanut butter. \u00a0I had bought a peanut free version of the\u00a0brand before, but apparently the particular one that I hastily purchased DID have peanut butter. \u00a0The print was small in comparison with the other lettering, and obviously not pronounced enough to raise the suspension of the lady that handed out snacks at the daycare. \u00a0I can&#8217;t tell you how badly Bryan and I felt, but if someone who is always very careful about packaging and labels missed the print, maybe I wasn&#8217;t such a horrible person. Lesson learned &#8211; read the labels at least 5 times before purchasing, and read again before sending snack(s) to the daycare.<\/p>\n<p>Still, we were\u00a0not certain that Miriam actually had an allergy to peanuts. \u00a0I mean, a million things can make a kid puke, right? \u00a0I took Miriam to the doctor and the doctor agreed. \u00a0Great &#8211; probably no peanut allergy??? \u00a0She mentioned a research article about sensitizing kids with a risk of peanut allergies and maybe we could try peanuts again. \u00a0I remembered the article, because it had made such a splash in the popular press. \u00a0However, considering the consequences of a severe reaction, it didn&#8217;t seem like the thing to do. \u00a0I am not an MD, so I thought maybe we would give the snack one more try.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_1508\" style=\"width: 306px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/51wjeU8b8dL.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1508\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1508\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/_d_improd_\/51wjeU8b8dL-300x300_f_improf_300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-1508\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><strong><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Notice the oversized strawberry. It is labeled as &#8220;peanut and strawberry&#8221;, but I missed it. &#8220;Organic&#8221; and strawberry were the only things that registered with me.<\/span><\/strong><\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_1507\" style=\"width: 306px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/4ba37d6c-3e5a-4d62-8d52-aea82f2e4c31_1.2a0b05aa86486c3c3276c9216f15316d.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1507\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1507\" src=\"https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/4ba37d6c-3e5a-4d62-8d52-aea82f2e4c31_1.2a0b05aa86486c3c3276c9216f15316d-300x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/4ba37d6c-3e5a-4d62-8d52-aea82f2e4c31_1.2a0b05aa86486c3c3276c9216f15316d-300x300.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/4ba37d6c-3e5a-4d62-8d52-aea82f2e4c31_1.2a0b05aa86486c3c3276c9216f15316d-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/4ba37d6c-3e5a-4d62-8d52-aea82f2e4c31_1.2a0b05aa86486c3c3276c9216f15316d-50x50.jpeg 50w, https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/4ba37d6c-3e5a-4d62-8d52-aea82f2e4c31_1.2a0b05aa86486c3c3276c9216f15316d.jpeg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-1507\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><strong><span style=\"color: #993300;\">This is the Jammy Sammy I had previously gotten for the kids. Sans peanuts&#8230;.<\/span><\/strong><\/p><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>About a month later, we tried the snack again to see if she had the same response. WOW &#8211; it was bad! \u00a0I gave her the snack, turned to give Rachel and Sarah their food, and before I could turn back around &#8211; BLAGHHHHHHHHH!!! \u00a0Miriam puked so hard\u00a0it looked like something from the Exorcist! \u00a0She rocked so quickly and with so much force during the vomiting episode that I was afraid that her highchair would turn over. \u00a0The area around her mouth became blood red and then she started coughing. \u00a0Bryan was in the next room and came charging in to see what was going on.<\/p>\n<p>We quickly got her out of the highchair and made sure she had a clear airway. \u00a0Other than\u00a0coughing for a few minutes, she was fine. I knew instantly that it must be a peanut allergy. \u00a0Bryan just didn&#8217;t think that she had a &#8220;real&#8221; allergy. \u00a0His reasoning was that maybe there was something else in the &#8220;Jammy Sammy&#8221; that was making her sick. \u00a0Again, I am not an MD, but the degree and acuteness of the reaction was remarkable. \u00a0I consulted with Miriam&#8217;s pediatrician and had a lengthy conversation about allergies. In all due respect, her counseling almost sounded scripted. \u00a0I am sure that she deals with uptight parents a lot, but I was persistent. \u00a0She recommended a blood test that was a &#8220;food allergy&#8221; panel. \u00a0If that was positive we would move forward with an allergist and more testing.<\/p>\n<p>Well, the only thing that was suggestive of an allergy was peanuts and those measurements were &#8220;probably not clinically relevant&#8221;. \u00a0I did a little background research about the IgE food panels, and read that there are several things that can decrease the sensitivity of the results. \u00a0Given the lack of clarity, I pushed for a referral to an allergist. \u00a0I had to wait 3 months to get Miriam into the allergy clinic. \u00a0Apparently the specialty clinics are very difficult to get into (I had been through this with Rachel and her nephrology issues). \u00a0Since avoiding peanuts was relatively easy, I decided to make the appointment with the clinic in our hospital system to ease the transfer of information between doctors.<\/p>\n<p>Miriam&#8217;s appointment was yesterday. \u00a0The timing couldn&#8217;t have been better &#8211; Miriam developed a GI bug Saturday that lasted until Monday. \u00a0Sarah became sick Monday, and I had been feeling queasy for at least a day. \u00a0My queasiness almost caused me to miss taking her to the appointment, but somehow I rallied. \u00a0I figured that I would grab a trash can and get on with it if I needed to vomit. \u00a0\u00a0Motherhood is like that.<\/p>\n<p>After taking a detailed history, the doctor ordered an indoor allergy panel and a peanut allergy test. \u00a0Fortunately, it was done during the office visit. \u00a0Miriam wailed during the testing. \u00a0I don&#8217;t know how, but my girls are so strong. \u00a0I nearly fell out of the chair while holding her, because she was thrashing so vigorously.<\/p>\n<p>As I said at the start of the blog, I love being right, but this time I really wanted to be wrong. \u00a0Miriam\u00a0had a &#8220;very strong&#8221; reaction to the peanut allergen. \u00a0\u00a0The doctor congratulated me for not trying to &#8220;sensitize&#8221; her to peanuts or exposing her further. \u00a0The allergist explained that she was retiring in a month and that she would transfer Miriam&#8217;s\u00a0care to\u00a0a &#8220;great&#8221; food allergy specialist &#8211; Yeah. \u00a0 \u00a0I was disappointed that Miriam would be followed by a different doctor, because the current allergist reminded me of Mom &#8211; straightforward, yet caring and friendly.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_1509\" style=\"width: 231px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/IMG_0639-e1491598853353.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1509\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1509\" src=\"https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/IMG_0639-e1491598853353-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/IMG_0639-e1491598853353-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/IMG_0639-e1491598853353.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-1509\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><strong><span style=\"color: #993300;\">on the left &#8211; indoor allergens, not very much reaction. on the right &#8211; &#8220;positive control&#8221; top, saline &#8220;negative control&#8221; middle, and peanut allergen bottom.<\/span><\/strong><\/p><\/div>\n<p>After being trained how\/when to use an EpiPen (YES &#8211; AN EPIPEN!) and given an &#8220;emergency plan&#8221;, we were finally on our way out the door. \u00a0We aren&#8217;t supposed to let her have any nuts until she is screened further. \u00a0I hope that she isn&#8217;t too limited, but we will see. \u00a0Being a peanut free house is going to be a tough journey for us all.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I love being right. \u00a0I love vindication. \u00a0However, there are times that I wished my 6th-sense mommy intuition was wrong. At Miriam&#8217;s daycare, parents send food\/snacks for their children until they are roughly 1.5 years old. \u00a0I am not an organic\/clean food sort of consumer\/parent, so practically none of the food that I sent to&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1507,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1501"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1501"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1501\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1516,"href":"https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1501\/revisions\/1516"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1507"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1501"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1501"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.myhusbandandkids.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1501"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}